Do You Want to Be a “Nice Guy”? Dr Shabir Choudhry

 

Do You Want to Be a “Nice Guy”? Dr Shabir Choudhry

A “nice guy” is often perceived as someone who is:

·       predictable

·       an approval-seeker

·       overly compromising

·       conflict-avoidant

·       emotionally flat

·       quiet and unassertive

·       boring

·       hesitant to take initiative

·       unwilling to challenge wrongdoing

·       not a change-maker

·       living within parameters set by others

·       decent, but not respected or desired

·       reluctant to act because he worries too much about what others might say

Above all, such a “nice guy” is often not taken seriously, and many women may not find this kind of personality attractive.

So, do you still want to be a “nice guy”?

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Dr Shabir Choudhry

 Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) said: "Say what is true, although it may be bitter and displeasing to people."